Never Marginalize

Always show dignity

Always include

Goodness that sounds like a tall order.

We are the science lab for our children. Imagine having so much freedom in Christ that you are empty and liberated to be compassionate, non-judgemental, loving, patient, merciful – at all times. All times.

A few years ago, my dear friend, Amy, once told me to lean in. I had texted her in a panic, telling her that I couldn’t do it. I didn’t have anything left to give. I was the wrong girl to be a mom to these kids.

She just texted back, “lean in”.

She was right. The hard moment passed as I sat on the cold tile and leaned against the wall. I prayed for the Holy Spirit to be with me, right there, in all the ugly. I was embarrassed about my feelings and my actions, but I knew I needed Him more than ever.

When it gets hard, there is nothing more than our enemy wants than for us to throw up our hands and give up.

Leaning in does not come naturally to me. I want to push back, list all the wrong doings, tell everyone all the reasons I am right. But none of those actions are actually helpful. None.

When I want to run away, I try to ask my Savior to take my hand and lead me into the place He wants me. He slowly walks me towards the hurt and the mess. It’s as if I feel Him put His hands on my shoulders and reminds me that I’m not alone.

Dear mom, I see you. This is the hardest part. Lean in. Lean towards the hitting or the biting or the tears. Take their burdens from them and help them walk again.

Here is the secret. Leaning in is the shortcut. You’ll get to the place you want even faster.

Love,

A mom riding the rollercoaster with you